How to Hurt a Man
- Mar 20
- 4 min read
By Frank Weber
Copyright ©2026
For some reason, there is a definite segment of the female population that wants nothing more than to hurt men.
It’s a rather bizarre mindset. In reality, it’s a short-sighted, vicious self-destruction indirectly leveled on the women themselves.
Yes, this blind arrogance toward men reflects heavily back on the women that wield it.
“Men are USELESS!”
“No woman EVER needs a man!”
“All of the world’s problems are BECAUSE of men!”
“Men are afraid of women because they know we can do everything BETTER!”
“Men are TOO masculine and they hurt women because of it!”
Sound familiar? Did I miss any?
Allow me to retort…by contrast...
Men do NOT consider women useless in any way.
Men know full-well that they NEED women.
The vast majority of the world’s problems can be traced to the blind obedience of droning, sheepish masses – NOT men as a sex OR women as a sex.
Men are masculine and women are feminine. THAT is a simple fact and law of the natural world.
Both sexes are what they are for very specific and natural reasons – reasons decided and dictated by NATURE, not by men OR women.
When you arbitrarily fuck with natural law because someone or something somewhere hurt your feelings – NOT hurt YOU but made you FEEL “bad about yourself” - you upset the natural order.
When you hurt a man like this, you push him farther away until his natural instinct for survival supersedes all other wants and desires.
Simply put, when a man has had enough, he will “walk away” so that he can survive another day.
If a woman “feels bad about herself”, then she should first look to change whatever it is INSIDE OF HER that makes her feel bad.
She won’t get there by blaming men for being too masculine – THAT is not the cause of her “feelings”.
Remember this – no man or woman is ever obligated to care for or about another’s feelings.
Let me say that one more time…no man or woman is ever obligated to care for or about another’s feelings.
Take care of yourself first, and THEN others will have the instinctual WANT to care, but not before.
Why would ANYONE EVER jump up to help when they are instantly attacked for it?
It is NO fault of any man if a woman “feels bad about herself” just because a man is being a man.
It is NO fault of any man if a woman FEELS “repressed” just because a man is being masculine.
Those “feelings” come from within the woman, not outside from men.
No modern woman now knows TRUE repression.
Get over yourself.
But then just as quickly, these women blame the very men they attacked when they simply “walk way” – as though there’s something ELSE wrong with the man.
If a woman continually emasculates, denigrates and hurts a man, he WILL – sooner or later – simply walk away out of pure exhaustion and frustration.
It’s Bukowski’s “shoe lace” effect – it’s never one big problem, it’s ‘a thousand broken shoelaces that will send a man to the madhouse’.
Sooner or later, the undeserved battering is just not worth the pain being inflicted on him.
It is NOT a force of so-called “toxic masculinity” when the woman feels bad after the man is pushed out and away. He has been pushed into personal survival mode, and he does what he can to remove the pain.
Nature works well that way.
Let me say it one more time…no man or woman is ever obligated to care for or about another’s feelings.
Funny though, that the ONLY time a man seems to have ANY worth to these women is when he becomes grudgingly NECESSARY for their happiness and wellbeing.
A rather obnoxious paradox.
“Man bad! Man too masculine! Oh...wait...I can’t do this, but HE can…hhhmmmm…Honey…”
Sound familiar?
It’s funny how quickly the idea of “that’s a man’s job” comes back around when it’s convenient.
“I guess a man will be ok if he helps me…just as long as he does NOT act like a man when he does.”
After all of this battering, when a man has finally reached the tipping point and walks away, these same women begin to feel alone in the world. They DO begin to feel the want for a man, but – SURPRISE – men are hard for them to find. And when they do find one, he doesn’t hang around for very long.
“Men are TOO sensitive these days! Men aren’t acting like men anymore! I can’t find a good man!”
Doesn’t that sound all-too-familiar?
A truly obnoxious, self-serving paradox.
So…you really want to hurt a man? Then…
Act like he’s nothing.
Act like he has nothing to offer.
Act like he’s useless.
Act like he has nothing to say worth hearing.
Act as though every word he speaks is wrong.
Act as though every thought he has is wrong.
Act as though every thing he does is wrong.
Act as though he is nothing more than a bungling ape.
Do these things and you WILL hurt him – and you WILL hurt him quickly – and you WILL guarantee that he WILL leave – and maybe then YOU can FEEL better about YOURSELF at his expense.
Just stop all the pissing and moaning when you find yourself alone, with no man around you, and you can find no man that is willing to force himself into the selfish mold you have created.
Your whining is wasted air and sounds like nothing more than static in a man’s ear.
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